COUNSELLOR SAYS
It hurts when you feel your trust has been betrayed.
It is understandable that you find it difficult to continue to trust him.
You do not need to resign yourself in accepting his lies and neither do you need to make a decision to leave him at this stage.
For the sake of the marriage and your young child, continue to hold out in the marriage.
Get help for yourself first before trying to do anything else for the marriage. It is important that you are receive counselling for yourself. This will help you cope better.
Talk to your husband.
You may want to try to understand why he has done this and how he feels about his action.