got 3 new room mates, had the flat for myself for a long time, but i didnt change anything, i'm the longest living member here, and it has always been a slight mess so i didnt change that.
now i got 3 new super tidy zoomer room mates who think its all my fault.
they dont invite me to their activities, thew out my favorite pan and use their own toilet paper, generally there is no connection or sense of sharing, plus the bad feeling that comes with being excluded / looked down on without really knowing why.
how to cope with this?
i can't be confrontational, though i'm okay with being disliked, but i want to know why and it's just weird.