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I don't find this particularly attractive. I much prefer the idea of a sort of self-reinforcing power-couple. e.g. hey honey want to go mount-climbing, I only sleep with women who have read their Livy for the day, lets learn to paint with our friends, we should discuss the impact of philology on Nietzsche's thinking over breakfast, etc. Two pistons in a two stroke of personal advancement, or something like this.