>>8
Good point but don't forget you have to keep up with the changes, because one you previously knew as X is now Y. Also birth certificates being desperately ``binary'', they are probably part of the ``systemic oppression''.
Anyway, I always try to be kind, even without a guideline. Just don't ask me to learn new pronouns for each individual. This is tiresome and a bit of a perversion by itself. It's asking me to validate your sexual fantasies, to roleplay with you, and that seems to me very close to another form of sexual harassment.