That's fine although keep in mind customary law has a definitive (even legal) definition and does exist but it doesn't help me find a sound basis for the law which was my original concern, something similar to what I found for morality.
I tragically misspoke here, the meaning I was intending to convey was that defining the law as enforced by the state doesn't seem to help me find the justification I'm looking for, and perhaps not definition generally.
I'll respond to the rest of >>16 soon, but it's very late here, and I might need some silence for a day or two.