1. Do not ever let her have a single dime no matter what.
2. When you spend money on her, break the bank.
3. Continue in this: never let them take away from you your ability to choose for both of you what is right. That means that you should not shy away from the responsibility of making decisions, and as a man, that is your chosen role. It will serve you both well.
4. For the good of both of you, maintain separate checking accounts.
5. Spend the best of your time with your partner, and give them the best of your loving whenever they want it. If you're feeling uninterested, that is probably when they will appreciate it the most.
6. Do not squabble over small details. It is wise to pick your battles. When things are serious, do not overreact. Raise your voice as loud as it will go, but do not abuse them physically. If they have become unreasonable and contentious, simply replace them with something better.
7. Spend your money wisely and set a budget that reflects your need for savings. This should ideally be about 25% of your income. This is best invested and not just simply left to rot.
8. Nobody cares about you except for what you bring to the table. With this expectation in mind, enjoy your love, but always keep your eyes on foreign skies, just in case.
9. Do not call names.
10. Appreciate the joy of life together when you're able, but realistically, what you're wanting to do is have some one to have sex with that does your housework for you.